"Look at the individual, not the harm. Look at the person beyond the scars. Scars are not important. The person that did them is important." I’m sorry that you’ve reached a point in your life where harming yourself seems like the only option. I have been there, I understand. I’m sorry that you are struggling so much, and therefor you are inflicting pain on yourself. I’m sorry that you may feel alone, and hopeless and therefor use self harm as a form of release, or punishment